A 3-minute read on a one-week experiment: pick one financial number and one health number, check each on a fixed schedule instead of on impulse, and see what happens to the anxiety in between.
The setup: pick a single financial number that stays legible on its own, one position rather than a whole portfolio, and one health number: resting heart rate, a weigh-in, a symptom you’re tracking. Set two check times for the week, say Sunday night and Wednesday night, and nothing outside those windows.
The rule that makes it an experiment and not just restraint: if the urge to check hits outside the two windows, write down the time and the anxiety level, one to ten, instead of checking. That log, not the two scheduled checks, is the actual point.
What tends to happen: the log fills up early in the week and thins out by the weekend, not because the number stopped mattering, but because most of the urge was checking for comfort rather than checking for information. The two scheduled checks usually just confirm what the log already showed.
The point isn’t to stop paying attention. It’s to find out how much of the daily checking was ever about the number, versus about needing somewhere to put the anxiety. A week is short enough to try and long enough to see the pattern.
P.S. Tomorrow: why comparing your portfolio to a neighbor’s and your workout to a stranger’s online do the same quiet damage, and the one question that neutralizes both.
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